IN MEMORY OF
PETER WENSBERG
3/2/29-11/7/06

On a chill, early spring day in the late 1980's, I retrieved a message left on my answering machine by a man identifying himself as Peter Wensberg. He inquired about secretarial services, explaining he had a manuscript that need retyping. I called him back and, eager to land a new account, offered him my lowest student rates, even though he obviously wasn't a student. His response was clear and to the point: "That's quite
a lot!" Convinced I wouldn't hear from him again, I hung up the phone and let go of the possibility of a new client. Much to my surprise, several days later Peter walked into my Copley Square office in Boston carrying a large box of papers. Thus began a nearly twenty year relationship with an extraordinary man who would soon become not only a client, but a friend and occasional mentor.
From the start, working with Peter was a pleasure. I looked forward to his phone calls and arrivals at my office. His warmth, sense of humor and genteel manner always brightened my day. Though deciphering his handwriting was often a challenge that kept me on my toes, the content was interesting and his style delightful.

Long before I met him, Peter worked in sales and promotion for both Harcourt, Brace and Little, Brown and Company. In 1958 he joined Polaroid, where he spent 24 years managing promotion, advertising, communications and marketing. In 1982 he left Polaroid as an Executive Vice President, and joined Warner Communications as President of AtariTel. He also spent several years as President and CEO of Uniform Software Systems, Inc., a UNIX software developer.

Peter first contacted me a few years after he'd left Uniform Software Systems. He was in a jam: the word processing files for his nearly-completed manuscript had gone missing from his typist's office following her untimely, sudden death. I can't imagine his frustration with the additional expense (and bother) of having his second book,
The Last Bastion -- all 300 pages of it -- retyped. Yet, he never complained about the inconvenience and voiced only kind words about his deceased typist. The book was eventually published by Permanent Press in 1995. Peter's first book,
Land's Polaroid - A company and the man who invented it, was published in 1987.

Peter lived in Boston, but spent summers on the banks of New Hampshire's Little Squam Lake with Andrea and their four sons, often mixing business and pleasure. When Peter wasn't in Boston, I mailed his work to a P.O. Box in Center Sandwich, where he collected the post each morning. Years later I would leave Massachusetts and move to Tamworth, not far from Sandwich. But by then, Peter had sold the family's lakeside retreat, Niwasis, and moved from Commonwealth Avenue to Greenfield, New Hampshire with his beloved wife, Andrea. On my arrival, Peter mailed me a note that said, "Welcome to New Hampshire, where there are only two seasons: Winter and Construction." In spite of my numerous relocations, Peter continued to rely on me for secretarial services, and I couldn't have been happier with the arrangement. As long as a fax machine was handy, his work flow was unimpeded.

Peter had many interests over the years. Steamboats, traveling, antique wooden boats, snowmachines, sportscars and racing were but a few. More recently, Peter's pride and joy was his superb croquet pitch, built to USCA specs. Andrea occasionally advised me that Peter couldn't come to the phone because he was outside on his pitch, measuring the closely-cropped grass. I fondly remember attending "Brunch and Croquet" to celebrate Peter and Andrea's 50th wedding anniversary on a hot summer day in 2000. Peter and his young Samoyed, Nicholai, were both suitably dressed for the occasion in croquet whites.

During the last twenty years of his life, Peter consulted in strategic planning, marketing and communications. He served on the Board of Directors for The MacDowell Colony and Franklin Pierce College. He also was active on the Advisory Board for the Marlin Fitzwater Center For Communications at Franklin Pierce and the Calderwood Writing Initiative at the Boston Athenaeum. Additionally, as a Trustee of the Stephenson Memorial Library in Greenfield, Peter was instrumental in implementing the library's redesign and renovation.

I will always remember Peter's grace, humor and sincerity. Immediately after we were displaced by Hurricane Charley, Peter sent me a kind note with a check representing months of advance payment, because he knew I would need it. I cherish the notes he penned on heavyweight, engraved Crane's stationery, as well as his amusing holiday photocards.

This recent photo, sent at Christmas 2005, bore the handwritten message, "We found a place that is dry and warm. Transportation can be a problem, however."
Over the years I typed countless letters, emails, minutes and business plans for Peter, and at least two books. Some of the content was confidential. I'm grateful that Peter trusted me with his more sensitive, personal documents, as well as confidential business documents. Peter was most comfortable writing on lined yellow pads. Despite efforts of his offspring to enable a transition to the computer age, Peter never felt compelled to use a computer, avoiding technology whenever possible. His Palm Pilot was a Rolodex. Nevertheless, resisting the electronic age never dampened his enthusiasm or diluted the essence of his work.
I could not have imagined that losing Peter would be so heart-wrenching. In linear time, twenty years is a long time, yet it seems but the blink of an eye. Peter, who I always referred to as "my favorite client," inspired me -- to write, to break through self-imposed limits, to always reach for the brass ring. I find comfort in knowing Peter is at peace and probably playing croquet on the Great Pitch in the Sky, lovingly tending each blade of grass.
Peter, I will miss you. I will miss your wit, your wisdom, your gentleness, your intelligence, your sincerity, your passion, your affection, your enthusiasm, your warmth, your laughter, that twinkle in your eye, wonderful stories, and your unfailing devotion to family and friends. You touched so many lives and will be forever remembered as a remarkable, amazing man. Heaven is blessed to have a new angel in residence, and I am blessed for having known you. Thank you for inspiring me to be all that I can be.